First of all, I’m ridiculously in love. Like… head in the clouds, butterflies in the tummy, ‘I’m gonna write you love poems all day’ IN LOVE.
Today is Myer’s official due date. I CANNOT even fathom still being pregnant today… I am so SO glad that this goober decided to show up 12 days early. Happy Due Date, Myer Bean!
He’s such a good baby. It takes a lot to get this guy to cry. He mostly grunts. And when he locks eyes with you, you feel like you’re looking wisdom in the face. He likes to just look around and chill when he’s awake. Like he’s taking in the scene and wondering who these wacky people are that hover over him all day- cooing like smitten doves.
My mom has been here since the 16th. I can’t even begin to relate how wonderful this has been. She is taking very good care of us… cleaning the house and doing all the laundry and dishes… entertaining Ezra for hours on end and handling most of the bedtimes. She’s put her life completely on hold to come care for us, and there is NO WAY the transition back home with two children would be going so smoothly if it weren’t for her. She’s Wonder Woman. She’s a power house. She’s full of life and enegry. She’s… MoMar!
Having a child really forces you to look at the community and support system that you have created for yourself- that you have spent years or months or decades building up around you. And, having another child, for Chris and I, has opened our eyes to see exactly how loved and cared for we really are. It has felt like a big, smooshy hug. Like a safety net of sorts. Like the best feeling in the world.
For the past twelve nights, we have had a home cooked, AMAZING meal delivered to our door by people who love us. And the food is still coming! Chris has been able to come home from work and just sit and hold his son, because we have not had to worry about making meals. Also? The leftovers are to DIE for.
I believe in the old truism that says “it takes a village to raise a child”. I really do. I am aware that I need help and support to make it through the tough times. I am aware that life is much richer when you can celebrate personal joys with a multitude. I am fully conscious of the fact that we need each other in this life.
And I am so grateful to my friends and family for gathering around us during this precious time with our new son… I couldn’t ask for anything more. We are so very blessed.